Ready to get out of your head and into comfortable confidence?
You know your work inside out. You’re confident when you’re doing the work but when you’re put on the spot under pressure, you shrink or stay silent.
You lose your train of thought (or your personality) when presenting to senior leadership
You give too much detail when speaking off-the-cuff instead of organizing your ideas from a high-level perspective
You script or over-prepare instead of articulating your expertise with calm confidence
But when you’re comfortable? You are focused and present. You can express yourself with ease when you aren’t trying to prove yourself.
Over-working and over-thinking perpetuate patterns that detract from your innate ability to express yourself in the present moment. You communicate with confidence when you’re comfortable.
With comfortable confidence, we handcraft tools to unlock your ability to express yourself with clarity and cohesion in your most important moments so you can speak like the leader you are under pressure.
Offerings
An interactive group coaching program to help you speak like the leader you are in two months.
Custom-built coaching sessions so you can articulate ideas with authentic authority in any moment of speaking.
Custom workshops to help teams strengthen connection, communication, and collaboration.
“Within just a few weeks, my speaking nerves dramatically diminished and I felt more confident presenting to clients and speaking off the cuff. Lee arms you with tangible speaking tools, which I found so helpful, and also creates opportunities to practice and get more comfortable. They’re a master at helping people who struggle to speak confidently find their voice. I can't recommend them or this work enough.”
“Working with Lee was transformative. They helped me acknowledge the deeper issues underneath my speaking anxiety while also offering easy and actionable tips to speak with more confidence and clarity. Lee is an incredible resource and I’m so grateful for our time together, highly recommend them”
“There is something special about how Lee humanizes our feelings and struggles with communication. It isn't about learning the rules. A lot of it was unlearning those rules and understanding who those rules were made for. I learned to let go of those values and practices of patriarchy and white supremacy that make me feel less significant and less worthy to be heard.”
“While I've taken communications courses off and on for years and for various reasons, this is the first time that I've had a one-on-one communications coach. It was worth the time and money! Lee's focus on providing various tools to disrupt the behaviors and habits that trigger my nervousness and anxiety when public speaking was novel to me. I was initially skeptical about this behavior disruption approach, but as I implemented and discovered which approaches / tools worked for me, the subtlety between "managing" and "disrupting" habits was a game changer for me. I plan to utilize the tools I've acquired from Lee, and I look forward to continuous improvement in my communication skills.”
“Lee cuts through BS and tells you exactly what you need to do and works very hard with you to achieve it. Their dedication and focus shows every time!”
"I really appreciated Lee's coaching style, and each of our sessions felt very personalized and pertinent to what was going on in the moment. I can't think of anything I would have changed, only getting to work on more with Lee..”
“I never realized how much the fear of public speaking hindered my professional growth. After working with Lee, so many doors and opportunities opened up for me. I wish I could go back and tell my younger self to jump on the chance to work with them earlier.”
“I have gained a foundational confidence from these sessions which is invaluable and has become the foundation of my communication growth journey. I now feel that I have a framework to approach social situations which before would give me hesitation and anxiety.”
“The single best professional development training I have taken part in.“
“Lee is a gifted coach and skilled communicator. They clearly listens to their clients and is intent on providing practical and impactful tools to help them communicate better. I appreciate Lee's individualized, tailored approach to helping me improve my comfort and confidence in effectively communicating in various settings. Coaching with PresentVoices is a worthy investment in your personal/professional development.“
“Lee was fantastic! They’re so insightful and give direct and specific feedback. Within 15 minutes I felt like they really understood me and my challenges around communication, and had practical and easy-to-implement recommendations to improve. Lee has changed how I approach casual conversations, and how I feel about them. My coworkers have noticed my increased confidence, and more importantly, I feel it. Thank you Lee!t.“
“Our work together went way beyond the voice to embody the whole picture of my communication message unfolding. It was incredibly supportive, knowing I could turn to Lee for guidance on all facets of communication to deliver my most authentic voice in all forms.”
“Working with Lee has been very beneficial for my professional advancement. I am now more confident in my communication and I am able to better manage my nerves when I have to speak in public..“
“Lee really made all the difference in developing my confidence and improving my communication skills.”
“I have taken a number of public speaking and communication courses over the years. This course really gets to the core of each individual and how they communicate. I feel armed with the ability to recognize challenges and the tools to tackle communication challenges and become a more effective communicator. Thanks Lee!.”
"I work in a fast-paced environment. The ability to quickly distill multiple concepts and convey complicated messages competently, concisely, and confidently is expected and essential. Time and time again, I noticed myself falling short of this obligation. I explored different communication coach options, and for several reasons, Lee was the best fit for me. Within three sessions of working with Lee, I saw and experienced significant growth. They are both passionate and well-versed in their craft. They are flexible and cater their approach to you. Lee's theoretically, empirically, and practically supported methods have helped arm me with tools to strengthen, empower, and trust in my distinctive voice. I am grateful for the opportunity to have worked with them, and I look forward to their continued support in my communication journey.”
“Lee helped me understand how communication style can often overshadow content, and provided practical, personalized tips around how to make a message more impactful with an audience.”
“The Group Coaching Program is an amazing process of self perception and development. I have learned to observe the way I speak and communicate, and to embody the tools I needed to be able to reach how I want to be perceived.”
“Our people are still buzzing about Friday’s event. You did an amazing job.”
“We were all so thankful for your hard work and how much you were able to tailor the training to our needs. I heard nothing but great feedback from the team.”
“I loved working with Lee to develop a custom workshop on communication and personal brand for my colleagues. They are a fantastic collaborative partner and create highly relevant, original content. Even the strongest communicators will gain valuable insights from Lee that they can easily put into practice.”
“Lee is kind, flexible to work in the way that is best for you and has an endless toolkit that they share to make you feel more comfortable, confident, and in control of your communication. I cannot recommend working with them enough!”
“Working with Lee from Present Voices was truly life changing. The work has allowed me to communicate in ways I never before realized, both in professional and personal settings. I thought I was a good communicator coming into this work, only to find out the opposite, that there was so much room to develop my communication skills and use it in ways that aid both myself and those around me. I highly recommend this work to anybody looking to increase their understanding of their own communication style and who want to be able to use communication in more meaningful ways.”
“I learned a lot about my communication style and how to continuously build my communication tools effectively with Lee.”
“Before my work with Lee, I was convinced something was “wrong” with me and that I was a “bad communicator.” Lee helped me learn to trust myself and my voice, to be more present with others, to understand and manage my nerves, and shared fantastically easy and practical tools that I know I’ll be using for years to come!“
“Through my work with Lee I’ve developed the presence of mind and cultivated a self-confidence that has led to real, positive change in interactions across all walks of life.”
“Lee was amazing! I got so much positive feedback from the team. I couldn't recommend this experience enough!”
“The workshop was fabulous! We've been wanting to have an efficient training on communication and it really filled our expectations.”
“Lee was in our office for 3 hours and was able to help repair an employee rift that has lasted for 12 years. AMAZING!!!”
“The team is raving about their experience, standing tall, speaking powerfully and connecting with each other in new ways.“
HOW IT WORKS
Schedule a free consultation where we’ll get to know each other and make a plan together. You can do coaching privately, in my group program, or you can do a combo of both group and private coaching.
Once you sign up, you’ll complete an intake form where I design our sessions to meet your goals.
In our sessions on Zoom, I handcraft personalized, practical tools from neuropsychology, breathwork, and storytelling to use in your upcoming meetings, conversations, presentations, and interviews.
Between our sessions, I send you a roadmap and recap and you’re welcome to be in touch as you integrate the tools.
You’ll walk away from our time together with a customized combination of tools to be activated in your daily conversations, meetings, interviews, and presentations.
I hold a few scholarship spots, with priority given to people whose voices have been historically marginalized or those working for social justice. You can apply for a scholarship here.
Schedule a free consultation here
How Comfortable Confidence Works
Confidence is a byproduct of presence. We access confidence by combining:
Use habitual filler and fidgeting to consciously focus your attention, which distracts the part of your brain that wants to race and run ahead.
Practice tools on the spot that not only help you be present but also improve your hormonal confidence so you feel more comfortable and less nervous.
Prepare for the unexpected by creating structure in spontaneous moments to help you articulate ideas with concise cohesion.
Each session is designed from the ground up to help you:
Communicate confidently with a personalized framework of practical tools designed just for you
Manage nerves and anxiety by aligning brain, breath, and body so you can regulate your nervous system and focus your attention
Take up more space or make space for others in conversations by cultivating conversational comfort and pausing on purpose
Focus your attention so you can think on your feet and speak off-the-cuff without losing your train of thought
Stop over-working and prepare in an efficient and effective way
Practice for upcoming presentations, meetings, and challenging conversations
Introduce yourself and your work with clarity and confidence
Organize ideas strategically when put on the spot and respond in a cohesive, concise, and compelling way
This work is for you if…
You’re a compassionate communicator seeking connection and collaboration but over-prioritizing how you’re being perceived
You’re working hard to get “better” at communicating, but it’s only making you more self-conscious
When you’re asked to talk about your work, you minimize your impact and shrink or go silent
You feel confident in situations with your team but lose track of your ideas with senior leaders
You’re scripting for meetings and then losing your presence and focus
You know the depths of detail in your work but struggle to share ideas succinctly under pressure
You’ve gotten feedback that you need more confidence or executive presence but find it distracting in the moment
You’re focusing on what words you should use to sound a certain way, especially with senior leaders
You’re being interrupted, talked over, or unrecognized in a toxic environment and want to gain respect while staying true to yourself
Impact
Watch my TEDx talk about how to liberate our voices from silencing systems like anxiety, oppression, and distraction by prioritizing presence, not perfection.
Have you watched my free micro-course?
In this free micro-course, I share my Comfortable Confidence approach so you can express yourself under pressure and speak like the leader you are.
Last month, I gave a TEDx talk at SUNY Cortland about how we have to feel seen, safe, and supported to show up and speak up as ourselves. I talked about how far too many people are silenced by internalized anxiety and systemic oppression and how we can use comfort to be powerfully present in our interactions instead of trying to project confidence or “executive presence”. Watch the TEDx talk here (and let me know what you think!)
Lee talks to Fuzia about helping people build vocal power and practice being present in impromptu and public speaking moments.
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Today we go behind the scenes of one household that shifted their careers, income streams and childcare in the pandemic … and the changes have been for the better.
Join me for a webinar designed to help you bring even more personality, power, and presence to your virtual world.